Why Chinese Men Don't Marry Indian Pakistani Black Women

Ever seen a Chinese Male Black Female married couple in the UK?

No? Why do Chinese men seldom marry women of colour, i.e Black, Indian, Pakistani?

Black women

In the western world, studies and polls consistently point out that the least desirable women are Black and the least desirable men are Asian. Its been suggested by some observers that Black women and Asian men ought to date due to the numerical imbalance resulting from the disproportionate number of Black male/White female and White male/Asian Female pairings hence promotion of American subcultural fetish groups under the acronym AMBW (Asian male/man Black Woman). However, it must be remembered, it is not just Caucasian men who find Black  women the least attractive, Asian men are no different, by the same token, it is not just Caucasian women but Black women also consider Asian men to be the least attractive, the  attraction void between Asian men and Black women is mutual. According to the US Census 2006, Chinese Male Black Female marriages only accounted for 0.1% of all Chinese Male marriages and 0.5% of American Raised Chinese male marriages. It is the lowest percentage for any ethnic Asian marriage involving a Black spouse, even lower than 'Indian Male Black Female.' The UK Census 2001 figures are equally as low. What are the possible explanations?

1a) Black Culture
Black popular culture is an area of significant appeal to non-Blacks, notably the fields of music, fashion, dance etc, forming a major part of British urban multi-culture, however, Asians are unenthused, evidenced by low Chinese attendance figures at the annual Notting Hill carnival. Even when urban Asians jump on the urban bandwagon as many Koreans do, it is via the cultural appropriation of Black urban music and dress etc, i.e cultural theft, it isn't in homage nor in admiration of Black culture nor Black people at all.

In the UK, British Born Blacks are predominantly located in aggressive urban cities, many have picked up an 'ghetto swagger/attitude,' and a ghetto twang. It is the Marmite principle, you either love it or hate it....most Asians hate it. The recent influx of African immigrants behave rather differently to their British Afro-Caribbean counterparts, many have thick accents, it is sometimes difficult to comprehend nor does it sound particularly attractive. Nigerian immigrants have strong characters, very aggressive verbally with plenty of attitude, exactly the kind of attitude required to deal with the urban jungle, however, would you want to go home to a woman like that, its too much, there lies the negative perception that Black women are too aggressive. Chinese men prefer their women to be demure.

1b) Geography
Black community is largely segregated from the Chinese community. Unlike the USA, the British Chinese do not live in concentrated ghetto areas, they are geographically dispersed. Map of London below shows the  dispersal of Chinese population, even in dark highly populated areas, Chinese only form a maximum of between 3% to 5.35% of a borough's population.

Chinese tend to live in white areas, not ethnic strongholds populated by Blacks etc. There are many Chinatown's in the UK, but they are not real residential areas, they are small in size and consist of many  commercial buildings.

Globally, in the Far East, Black women are not choosing the Far East as a target destination for employment, study etc. From observation, although there does appear to be a growing number of Black weeaboo's for the next generation, they're American not British and tend to be nerdy and removed from ghettoised Black culture, it is often said the types of Black women that date inter racially are the well educated  intentionally detaching themselves from underachieving Black males. Most Black females in the UK are not high educational achievers whereas most Chinese rate education very highly, there is an intellectual mismatch.  Black's tend to live in Ghettoised built up urban areas where educational achievement has been historically low.

There is also racial conflict, inner city schools densely populated by Blacks, its common for Black students to racially abuse the small minority of Chinese that attend the school. Its unfortunate, but despite the mass media's attempts to spin a multi-cultural Britain, the UK is a segregated country.

2) Physical Attributes
Black male archetype and Asian male archetype are different, the former perceived as masculine the latter perceived as feminine. Black women prefer their guys to be well built, tall and muscular, Asian guys are usually shorter and thinner.

Theres a general perception that the physical features of Black females are less desirable than other racial groups. Voluptuous lips for example are in vogue...but the irony according to non-blacks...'bubble lips' are only attractive on White women, such is the media and social bias against Black women, whenever big voluptuous lips are mentioned, its attributed to Angelina Jolie and not Black women. Black women have flatter noses and wider nostrils, even Latoyah Jackson had hers closed, undoubtedly, a slim nose is generally considered more attractive. Even in Chinese culture, women with a short flat fat nose with no bridge is considered unattractive, 'tat-bei.' Black women are often perceived to be physically heavy, the anti-thesis of a stereotypical feminine petite oriental woman, size matters. 

White skin in East Asian culture. White skin is considered pure, upper class like pearl, Black skin is lower caste with a low desirability, it is a convention of beauty passed down from history where the lower class manual labourers and field workers had sun bronzed skin. Today, Black, Hispanic, Indian and  even Chinese women (who are already pale) buy skin bleaching Cream's. Why? Because its desirable to have pale skin. In India, skin whitening cream's outsell coca-cola. Even Black men prefer Black women with lighter skinned tones as 'brownies' as they call them. Black women are at a disadvantage because of their darker skin tone.

Family
Generally Chinese  men give consideration to their parents wishes in choosing a wife, after all she is theoretically speaking - marrying into his family. Most FOB Asian parents are unfavourable to the idea of a Black daughter in law, of course dating is passable but any attempt to push it to the next level (i.e marriage), expect the proverbial to hit the fan. Generally, parents of non-mixed race children prefer their son/daughter to marry their own race, the question is the extent to which disapproval is expressed, don't expect the average Chinese male to shut out their family for a woman. Chinese families are in contrast to Black families which are synonymous with broken homes and single parenting, the anti-thesis of the strong Chinese family unit. UK Census 2001, revealed Black single parent households were three times higher than Chinese.

Media
There have been numerous risible attempts to market the idea to America that Chinese and Black's are both ghettoised urban ethnicities. Jackie Chan, Bruce Lee, Yao Ming and NBA, Jackie Chan in particular consistently targets Black American audiences with Afro-Sino partnerships in his movies. Blacks are  intrigued by martial arts, but its not doing them any favours,  its implied aggression, hence the stereotype that Blacks have a propensity for violence. Still, there was a Jet Li Aaliyah partnership in Romeo Must Die, their relationship was maladroit, unconvincing and unpersuasive, America has got it wrong, Chinese are closer to White culture  than Black culture. In the UK, British Blacks and Chinese are arguably culturally much further apart than America, the same concept would not sell here.

Pakistani
Pakistani women are mostly Muslim and with the exception of nominal Muslims or cultural Muslims (i.e the Konnie Huq types, highly westernised who wear short skirts, chain smoke, go clubbing etc), generally Chinese and Muslim's are incompatible. A Chinese male would have to convert to Islam to marry her or be considered 'kafir.' In fact, she would also be considered 'kafir' if she merely date someone who isn't a Muslim. As a part atheist and part Buddhist/Taoist, the probability of conversion to Islam would be zero, most Chinese males would probably agree.

Indian and South East Asian women

Indian women have a propensity to marry other Indians from the same religion, there are few inter racial marriages.  According to US Census 2006, Indian women accounted for the lowest  inter racial marriage percentages for any Asian ethnic group by gender. I have not personally seen any Chinese male/Indian female marriages in the UK, if there are some, the females are highly unlikely to be the religious types. Indian women are racially driven and don't mix well. Look at Indian population in London on the map below...

http://bbczeitgeist.blogspot.com/2010/08/racial-and-political-landscape-of-uk.html

In conversation with other Chinese, a common opinion is that it is considered very low for a Chinese to marry an Indian,  generally a Chinese male would only do so if he was impecunious and unable to find a suitable Chinese bride,  one  would have to assume its related to status and skin colour, the darker the skin, the lower the status, it transpires that those with dark skin form the lower echelons of  the Developing world, they have a low economic and social status thus reducing their desirability, it is plausible given that Chinese males in Hong Kong do not marry the thousands of darker skinned Filipino or Indonesian housemaids that work there.

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